Thank you for giving me the opportunity
to be of service to you and your spirit loved ones. Here
are some suggestions that my clients have found to be
helpful in preparation for their mediumship sessions with
me. Please note that recording is not permitted but note
taking is encouraged.
1. Invite your spirit loved ones to communicate with us.
This can be done by speaking to them out loud or in your
mind to invite them to participate in the session. You can
also get out pictures of them and personal objects of theirs
to make that connection with them even stronger to invite
them to communicate with us. Many times they, in the spirit
world, are the ones who have orchestrated the session, but
it doesn't hurt to invite them anyway.
2. Once you invite them, drop all expectations of
hearing from specific spirit loved ones and just be open and
grateful to those who do communicate with us in your
session. I am not in control of who in the spirit world
communicates with us, so there are no guarantees that a
specific spirit loved one or pet that you want to hear from will communicate
through me. Most of the time the person or pet that you want
to hear from does come through in your mediumship session,
but not always. The spirit people and spirit pets, as I call them, have freewill
just as we do, so they decide whether the medium is a vibrational match with them and whether they want to
communicate through the medium or not. Just as they were
here in the physical world, some are better communicators
than others. Your emotional state can also affect
the communication link either positively or negatively, so
during your session it is best to
relax, let go of expectations and comparisons of other
readings or sessions you may have had before with other mediums, as all
mediums work differently, and to be open to whatever
happens. All we can do is invite them to the session and
invite them to communicate with us. It is up to them and
God, Spirit, whatever you call it by as to whether they will
come through and for how long.
3. If you have time to do so prior
to your session, it is suggested that you take
time to prepare by sitting still in a quiet location for 10 or 15 minutes
so that you can be in a relaxed and calm state for your
session. This can also be done through meditation and
prayer. This has been found to be helpful to the energetic
flow of messages coming through to the medium. Your energy and
emotional state as well as the medium's are important
components to the communication link and the reception of
messages from your spirit loved ones. It is also
suggested that during your quiet and still preparation time
that you remember and feel your love you share with your
spirit loved ones, especially the ones you are desiring to
hear from. After all, it's all about energy and Love
is the most powerful energy there is.
4.
During the session I suggest that you cooperate with me, not by feeding
me information, but by clearly validating what you can validate by
saying "yes I understand that" or a simple "yes that makes sense" will
suffice. It also helps to give a little context as to why the message
makes sense to you such as, "yes, that's his or her name". This tends to strengthen the communication link because your
loved ones realize that you are actually aware that it is really them and
that you are understanding their messages. Then they usually draw closer
to the medium enhancing the medium's reception of their messages. I also have found that responding
with vague responses like “uh huh” do not strengthen the communication
link, so please respond clearly, so that I and your spirit loved ones
will know you are understanding or not understanding their messages. If
you can not make sense of the information I am giving you at that time,
a simple "that doesn't make sense to me now" or "I don't understand that
now" or "I'll take that with me" will suffice. It's much better for the
energy of the session than to just answer "no". Many times I have had
clients contact me after their sessions to let me know they could now
make sense of information that they couldn't make sense of during the
session. Recording is no longer permitted, so I suggest that you take notes, because
information may make sense to you or a family member later. Also
please keep in mind that it is possible that I may misinterpret the
energy and the message being sent to me from your spirit loved ones.
5. Make sure that you can be totally present with no distractions
around you. It takes a lot of energy from the medium and from the loved
ones in spirit to make this communication happen, so I strongly suggest
that you pay attention and participate in your session.
6. I also suggest that you eat lightly an hour or so before
your session so that you are not distracted by hunger and that you
refrain from consuming alcohol or any other substance that may prevent
you from being totally present. This does not include medications that
have been prescribed by your doctor. It is all about energy and if you
eat a heavy meal or ingest substances that alter your consciousness, it
can adversely affect the energy for your session.
7. The suggestion is to be open-minded and respectful to the
process and the medium, drop expectations, and in-Joy your session. I am
not here to prove my abilities as a medium, so I ask that you respect me
and the process by refraining from testing the medium and by refraining
from trying to extend your session past the 30 or 45 minute
session that you purchased. When that happens, it
can adversely affect the communication link with your spirit loved ones. My responsibility as the medium is to give you the messages
exactly as I am receiving them, so I will not interpret your messages
for you. It will be your responsibility to make sense of them or not
make sense of them.
8.
This is a joyous time for both you and your loved ones in
spirit to reunite and allow this process of mediumship to bridge the
communication gap between the physical and the spirit worlds, so the
suggestion is to approach your session with openness, joy, love and
gratitude.
Some people have expressed to me
that they are a little fearful of what will happen in their session.
There is absolutely no need to fear, because I only attract and
communicate with those in spirit who come from the Light and who come
with good and loving intentions. The Universal Law is “Like Attracts
Like” and my sessions happen through the Love and Grace of God/Spirit.
There is also no need to fear your loved ones because your loved ones
are the same loved ones who were here in the physical realm. They just
exist now in the nonphysical realm / dimension that some call Heaven. They are just as excited as you are to communicate their messages to you
that they are alive and well free from all earthly issues and ailments
that
they experienced while living on Earth. Fear is a low vibration and
adversely affects the session, so the suggestion is to remember and feel the love
you have and share with your loved ones and keep that in your thoughts
before and during your session.
I look forward to talking with you and your loved ones in spirit.
Blessings,
Beecham Parker
